1-Have any successfully used penis pumps?
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When I was younger, I always would cum too early for my girlfriend and then my wife. I was always trying to hold back for her. Now my new girlfriend always cums several times before me. Then she usually gets too tired and we have to stop before I can cum. Do you think it is normal for a woman to cum easier than a man after 50 or 60? Usually I give her oral and then she masturbates me. We both get so tired from her masturbating me that we often just give up. It does not matter if I am completely soft or a little bit hard. In few cases I have been able to get hard enough to penetrate. On those few occassions, I was able to maintain the erection, but she eventually becomes completely exhausted after having her orgasms.
Have a great Valantines Day! Don’t forget to hold hands and drag her around in public. Don’t forget to sit side by side in a booth today at the restaurant (she will love that more than any cuisine or cost-but it must be a booth).
Don’t forget to walk with some pep in your step. Take a moment to just stare at her with naughty boy intentions. Call her mother and say Ha Ha you can’t have her back; then hang up. Trust me that one will return a thousand fold to you from your wife. (whats gotten into him??? they love it)
Don’t forget to follow her around the house and get a pinch on her nerves. When she objects say but ‘I really really like you and besides I never told you this but I beat this guy up just before we got married because he said mean things about you. (it is just a little white lie but they love it)
Don’t forget love needs to be cultivated just like a vegetable garden.
It’s a good day to play Farmer!
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i beleive it depends on the lady you happen to be with. That being her attitude towards the problem itself. If she is a good understanding woman and seems to care about her partner it should not stand between you and her. Im sure the couple should be able to come to some kind of compremise during sex. I myself am 48 and have some what erectile dysfunction since age 18 due to spinal injuries from an auto accident.this has been problems for me with some women and others did not mind.those who did not mind were good lovers in and out of bed. Now that im 48 and in tune to my body and sexuality i still see and hear of women who have issues with this problem.i can take a cialis from canadian pharmacy and perform well and be able to satisfiy my partner with no problem. so i guess to those woemn who have issues about E.D should get a life. after all some thing could happen to the female anatomy that could cause them just as much grief.
single women over 50 react to a dating partner’s impotence, assuming he is also over 50? Do women that age still want sex? Are they willing to overlook impotence? Do most women over 50 seem to like receiving oral sex as an adequate substitute? Is a man’s impotence going to be a major issue?
This is the first time I was able to feel some kind of assurance on so many levels, and gain so many viewpoints and even feel lifted, understood and amused. Its the first encounter i had with this topic. But i have to say from what i have read so many of you have insights, and an ability to communicate, stepping up to the plate, more so than i have seen anywhere. For me that was what i wanted a man in my life for male presence they way they see things.
I will continue to stay
I’m new here, have had ED issues since prostate surgery three years ago. My PSA is low (<0.01) and I feel okay but erections are difficult for me to obtain/sustain. Since I’m a PCa survivor (as the aaying goes) I’ve got to be careful about even such herbal supplements such as DHEA and evene gingko biloba.
Ginger, which I’ve had some success with, is apparently safe. Things that can raise testosterone levels are probably not safe for me now (not 100% sure on this). I’m big on alternate medicine, atttribute my cancer survival in large measure to herbs, vitamins, diet and nutritional supplements, however post-op I have to be cautious. IF there’s anyone here in the same or similar position who’s had luck with alternate solutions I’d greatly appreciate any feedback you can give me.
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I just thought maybe the clear pulse meant that there was a decent blood supply going in. I can easily feel it all the way to the end. I will be getting tested presently. My current Urologist is a world class prostate expert, but not too keen on ED testing. I plan to see Dr. Reed in Miami. He is an expert.
Venuous leak or damage has to be checked with advanced sonogram equipment. a pulse as with the heart is not a stress test or a diagnosis of artery or vein damage. You will need to have your urologist or PC arrange the appropriate tests for the urogenital tract.
Good question-thanks for asking
Did you go through a period when you could get an erection, but it usually only happened when your wife or girlfriend provided physical stimulation to your penis? Was your partner willing to provide sufficient stimulation or did she get frustrated if you took too long? Did she consider stimulating your penis to be an exciting part of foreplay or just a necessary chore? I remember when that started happening on occassion, but not often at first. I did not know it then, but it may have been the first sign that impotence was on its way. Did you have to ask her to stimulate her or did she know naturally what to do? I can still get an occassional erection when my current partner stimulates, but they are rare and unpredictable. She nearly always achieves her multiple orgasms first when I give her oral. Then she tries to stimulate me, but we usually give up. She is already tired from 2-3 orgasms, and then trying to stimulate me for so long does take a lot of energy. Sometimes she just masturbates me to a soft orgasm, and sometimes we just give up after nothing happens.
There is a new oral medicine for ED. It is a orally disintegrating tablet. It is Vardenafil hydrochloride (levitra). Your doctor will likely have the samples as that is where I got mine from (primary care).
You pop the tablet in your mouth and let if fully dissolve and slowly swallow it (no pieces-no beverages). It takes about 1 hour to work and lasts a good 7 hours. It tastes minty and is smooth in the body. Like levitra and compared to Viagra it did not make me edgy or have any side effects that were noticeable.
The 2012 Cialis coupon is available also. You can get 30 5mg ‘daily’ cialis for free or get limited number of full strength pills. You need a Rx but if you call your doctor he will most likely just leave if for you at the front desk (no Fee) For those of you who see a cardiologist mine is big on Cialis and has been very generous on the samples.
Now is a good time to pass by the offices and pick up free samples.
For those of you who are like me: Severely impotent (no chance of erection w/out a tool kit of some form) Getting on a regiment of orals for the sake of being ‘Plump’ is great for the penis. The pump does not build the nitric oxide which is the natural erection mode. Though you still need this to fully expand the penis exercising the smooth muscle tissue.
There are also tremendous cognitive benefits to the orals. Having the sensation of erection does the heart of our manhood good. I do everything better when I have that ‘chubby or plump’ feeling in my groin. I am especially able to be more thankful, grateful, appreciative, and supportive, expressive of all forms of goodness.
This is just a mid point step for me. Once I have the implant done. The ability to perform on demand will eventually override the need for the chubby though I will still take the orals.
This also may be wise for those of you with a fair amount of venous leakage.
Remember the body does not perform well without the mind being proactive and positive. Minimize the doubt and despair and maximize anything you can!!
I just started using generic tadalafil 20mg i tried a very weak formulation where I was up to 80 units with not great results. My doctor switched me to a 30, 1, 10 formulation that is supposed to be stronger. I started at 30 units and had pretty decent success. I upped it to 35 units and, again, had pretty good results.
I think I may be doing something wrong in the beginning process and I’m looking for advise. Right after I inject, I keep the injection site covered with the alcohol swab and pinch the base of my penis. After a few minutes, I join my wife in bed (lying down) and seem to lose my erection somewhat. If I stand up again I am able to get the erection back but in the end it only seems to last for maybe 5-10 minutes.
Please provide me some feedback on what I may be doing wrong. I will continue to try this upping the dose to 40 units next time.
Thanks in advance for any help.
that deals with physical sensation for men and women and self esteem. As background please take these things into consideration.
A man said that Sally was the worst lay he ever had.
Another man said that his new girlfriend was a snapper The oldest man said he married his wife because her Vagina was silky soft and wonderfully warm and moist. And no other even compared.
The quadriplegic said, I wish I could be any of you The first male observer said, hey jerk off – ‘
I married Sally and she is the women of my dreams, your crazy her lovin is the best!
The young romeo said, Yuck I hate a snapper. That is just weird, If I wanted a hand job I would have asked for one.
The oldest man said what is wrong with you guys. Don’t you know there is a perfect mate for each of us in the world.
The quadriplegic said, now that I think about my former days. Intimacy and great love are not owned by sexual activity
Are all Vagina’s created equal in-terms of texture , warmth/ moisture, physical ability. -> No like a penis each vagina is unique, in all of the areas, texture, warmth and moisture. Not sure what you mean by physical ability, but if you mean how much muscle control, or the tightness then yes that too.
Are all penis created equal in terms of texture, warmth/(juicy penis), physical ability. No I would think a difference in penises as well. especially the juicy as some guys generate a lot of pre-cum and others not so much the same goes for amount of ejaculation although in both those areas a lot depends on the frequency What damage if any befalls Sally as she has been exposed to both statements about her sexual self. I would think the first comment about her being the worse lay will always be in the back of her mind. And while she probably is responding much better with her husband I doubt it would ever go away.
What damage if any befalls the quadriplegic who has been exposed to this thought process for years. While he will probably miss the sexual act it sounds like he is coming to terms with the fact that there can be intimacy withoutit.
say both men are absolutely correct. If so on what should Sally base her self esteem on? Yes she probably could, sex between two people is a merging of the two different desires and acts. She should try as much as possible to base her self esteem on what her husband tells her. The other guy obviously was not a good match for her sexually speaking and she wasn’t for him.
quadriplegic continue to feel less than a man because he is forever on the sidelines of sexual function? No he shouldn’t however odds are he will. Sex is by it’s nature a big part of how we define our manliness Are any of these perceptions good for all persons concerned. **taking in account your own self esteem while in recovery for impotence. And all the things said by others or by yourself to yourself.
And now standing in the mirror alone. What would you say to yourself about maintaining good self esteem while being inflicted with impotence while considering everything you know about sexual activity and ability?
This in a big way is the hardest part of being impotent trying not to let it taint the rest of how you feel about yourself. Unfortunately at least for me while logically I can think and reason with myself, that I am still a man and the lack of my ability does not change the fact, emotionally I find that it does affect me. Especially when being intimate with a woman.
The patients reported many different sexual issues including erectile dysfunction, low-libido, difficulty having an orgasm, and debilitating genitals and shrinking. Some guys also reported problems like stress, depression and cognitive haziness.
For 96% of the guys, the sexual difficulties lasted over a year once they cease utilizing the drug. Not one of the guys had sexual, medical or psychiatric problems before taking Propecia.
The research sample was small as well as the writers admit that it might be skewed to comprise only guys have been most negatively affected by the drug. All the participants were recruited via an Internet forum called Propeciahelp.com, for men experiencing consistent unwanted side effects.
Nevertheless, the authors assert their findings may indicate potentially serious dangers for men using finasteride. “Our findings make me funny this drug might have done irreversible damage to such guys,” Irwig told ABC News.
The FDA’s updated warning labels for generic finasteride 5mg were based on the report on postmarketing reports of sexual dysfunction. For Proscar, the FDA reviewed 131 cases of ed and 68 cases of reduced libido from 1992 to 2010. As Healthland noted in April:
Finasteride labels will now warn customers that Propecia’s side effects may contain libido disorders, ejaculation disorders, and orgasm problems that continue after discontinuance of the drug and that Proscar can result in reduced libido that continues after stopping the drug. Both drugs will get a fresh description of reviews of poor semen quality and male sterility that normalized or improved after ceasing treatment.
Time.com: Could there be a remedy?
Irwig recognizes the host of males experiencing longlasting negative effects from finasteride is little, even though the incidence of sexual negative effects in clinical trials was around 2%, the incidence of constant sexual negative effects is unknown, but probably less-than 0.1%. “But since the drugs is prescribed so generally, it is still lots of folks, probably thousands of men all over the world,” Irwig told ABC News.
I DID NOT ASK WHAT THE SYMPTOMS OF LOW T WERE FOR ED REASONS. Read my original post again. I asked “What are the low testosterone symptoms other than the obvious erectile problems?” In my reply I stated that I have gained weight, am fatigued and tired and have no energy…AFTER quiting the injections. My diabetes/blood sugar has just recently began to get crazy. It has NOT been that way for a long time. My cardiologist says my heart is good, my opthomologist says my diabetic retinopothy is good. If my diabetes was so out of whack as you take it to be, I would have more to worry about than worrying about a hard on.
My ED is permanent, pills, injections and normal T levels will not “fix” it. Those of you that have implants or will be getting implants are lucky. I am on Social Security Disability and receive the lowest amount paid ($694 a month). I can not afford the meds, if they worked, or driving/flying half way across the country to get an implant. I have no choice but to accept my sex life is gone. People (endowed) complain about losing length with an implant. Atleast you have a hard dick again. I am small. 4.25″ when hard, and I would gladly give some length up to have a hard on that would last as long as I wanted it to. If you don’t like being shorter…take the implant out. I’m sorry to vent but some people just can’t be happy, or don’t know how to be.
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Sildenafil citrate is a member of an unique group of drugs that inhibit specific materials in your body. Their main mission would be to enlarge the blood vessels in the entire body, but mainly around the penile region. Consequently, blood circulates with a far more intensive and fitter flow. Naturally, it’s dependent on the sexual arousal. Practically, the drug is entirely useless without sexual arousal, so don’t bypass the prelude.
It’s worth understanding that sildenafil citrate can’t be used by males. At once, girls need to stay away from this drug, as it can just cause unwanted effects.
Go according to the directions, should you’re able to see a specialist physician prior to taking sildenafil citrate. If Not, practice the administration details within the prospect. Discuss with a physician or even a pharmacist, if you’re not positive. You can purchase sildenafil citrate online and also get access to accredited professionals with no need to really see them face-to face, should you think it’s too uncomfortable.
The best dose is 50mg and shouldn’t be taken more often than one time per day. This isn’t an OTC (Over The Counter) drug, therefore it should never be taken should you not intend to participate into a sex. Apart from that, take the drug one hour prior to the real action. Remember that increased alcohol intake or a substantial meal rich in oily elements might delay its results with around 30 minutes.
Discuss with the physician, in case the effect is so strong or feeble. Moreover, don’t forget that sildenafil citrate won’t help you when you’re not sexually aroused.
I went in to the process thinking I wanted the semi-rigid. Why? Well, I am a very large man. 375 lbs. Most of my penis is hidden. I really don’t even stand to pee much. He had already told me to expect the flacid size to be much larger. I really did not expect much to be hanging out still.
He likes to do the 3 piece. Another uro that I saw liked to do the 2 piece.
The uro that I am using has said he will do which ever I want. At this point, I think I am going to let him decide. He has done over 2000, so I guess he is an expect.
I had a kidney stone problem over the last few months. I was sent to Emory in Atlanta, which of course is one of the very best facilities in the southeast. The uro that was doing the kidney stones hooked me up with their “expert.” When we talked, he has done only 20 or so. Expert???
I connected with this uro the first time we met. He bought out the medical facility that I have been going to for my injections for the last 6 years. He only comes over this way once a month. He has other PAs over once or twice a week.
I am having to go to his town for the surgery. And I have only been in that time maybe 20 times in my life. It is only 70 miles away. Atlanta is about 120.
Anyway, with the kidney stones, I have really maxed out my insurance deductables and out-of-pocket. So, now is the time. He let me pick the date to best suit my schedule and my wife’s schedule. She is a teacher and has already missed 8 days with me this year. (She has over 100 days of sick leave). I have probably missed 20 this year, but I had about 170 days. (I can keep more than she can). I will be taking 2 days of sick, 2 days annual (use or lose time), another partial day of both sick and annual, and work only about 20 hours between the surgery and the time we have off for Christmas. We don’t go back until Jan 5 (more annual that we are forced to take).
Hope my ramblings has helped.
of the content of your character will want to have a personal relationship. People who know what true love is will see your heart and spirit. You are truly to be commended for maintaing your poise. Goodness is more attractive than anything!! That’s why men will look at porn but seek to Marry a good girl to espouse and be the mother of thier children. Don’t get it twisted like I did. There are millions of young and old with major bodily afflictions enjoying the vastness of a loving relationship.
Your testimony speaks to the group and I would expect and hope that those who have had procedures go wrong will share. Every bit of what has happened to you is important. The male urogenital tract is more delicate and intricate than the heart.
There is so much to gain from your posting to the site. I will get back to you soon; as I need to organize my thoughts and seek wisdom from some of the other men.
I do understand the ED and the Catherization. I am ‘dating’ Lofric cath products now and spent a portion of 2009/2010 fighting infections from contaminated products in several forms.
Keep your mind and heart clear of banking on negative emotions and discernment processes. If you lean to the consultation of mis informed people mis informing you it is devastating. I have been there had a soda and steak and came back bearly alive.
As Health Care and the medical profession are true practices let me say this: OBGYN’s have a much more indepth compentacy because men have always exploited women as property and sexual objects. The profession of ‘investigating the wonderful mystery of the Vagina “is as old as mankind. Men however were either castrated to become eunuchs or given strong drink or opiates to ‘bear the pain’. There was a time not to long ago when a boy born with one testicle was left to die.
The past is ugly!! but what I really want you to know is that technology and competecy for us in on the move. There are however a small portion of men who truly are the best of the best. Consider how now you see national advertising about, ‘Is it Low T?’ The organized medical community has not even embrassed openly men must have a proper amount of Testosterone. Stupid!!! Everyone knows boys need Testosterone and girls Estrogen. So why the delay since the begining of mankind to make the maintence of proper Testosterone as normal as giving milk with cookies to a child?!!
Don’t be discouraged there are those who can help you navigate around the common place ‘dark ages practioners’ to those who are excellent.
Stand by for support we walk with you;
Guys please step up if you can relate to Gregory’s needs for help. If you know your neighbor needs a cup of sugar. Give it to them! Any body can talk about the problems; help by being a part of the solution. (sorry for my tone but another person was given a No to a obvious Yes situation and it has gotten under my skin)
implant may be the right choice for you. The longer you wait the more damage is being done to the penis. Talk to a qualified urologist about it. The sooner you do and the sooner you get yourself fixed, the happier your going to feel inside and out.
Depending of what caused your ED some specialist are better than others. General Practice Urolist do not have the skills. A Male Sexual Function Specialist / Urodynamic doctor is best.
Most of the great high volume implant centers are in the South, why, I don’t know. One thing you want a doctor with years of experience and that does over 100 implants a year.
I have some referrals if you would like, send me an email with the area of the country you live in and I will see if one of the doctors I know of is in your are. But be prepared to travel for the best.
Yet there are some other factors in your proclamation to perform oral sex that you may not be considering.
Let me start and probably end with sexual abuse.
Some of us guys were sodomized/buggered as boys and forced to commit oral sex on men or women. Some of the women were forced to perform oral sex on men and raped. Some were held captive to this for a long time. Some can not find any peace or normality sexually because of these incidents. Some of them experience impotence from the trauma of oral sex.
Others contracted STD’s from this activity in a attempt to sexually satisfy but not go all the way. Happens a lot on college campus. Scars a lot of people too.
Oral sex may never be ‘Reasonable’ under any circumstance for some people.
Resorting to something in my world is not the same as resourcing something. There are other things loving couples can do without resorting to oral sex.
I hope you will consider the audience at large in this group. I certainly like to contribute as well but I endeavor to think of who I may be hurting in the post.
If I have offended anyone my apologies; please write me under separate cover and let me know in what manner I did offend you.
of sorts and understand that what she does for you is more often a job, a challenge, than an erotic experience, no matter what you do for her at her Y. Be thankful and appreciative of her efforts, as we would like to think you are already doing. There are many women out there that will not allow you to give them oral, no matter how good you are at it or how seldom they receive quality oral. They go for intercourse as that is their world. True, less orgasms for them as they maintain that restrictive stance, but they can always say, “I did it MY way!” At least the quality oral you give is welcome. How nice!”
The only thing I would add is AMEN!
Does your wife or girlfriend ever have an orgasm when you cannot? How does this make you feel? She can have at least one and usually several orgasms nearly every time I perform oral sex on her, but I usually do not have even one. I can have one sometimes if she masturbates my soft penis for a long enough time, but not that often. It seems like when I was younger, I almost alway orgasmed first. Now she is always first.
Huddle up please. Huddle up.
Another Holiday is next week which for the past 4 years has been nothing but a time of depression. Valentine’s Day and that Cupid flying around agitating the world and promoting the finest sexual intimacy available.
Some of us have appointments next week for implants, orals, trimix etc… Please keep the group in prayer as none need any false pretense in the form of pressure.
Please, please, please post what you did to have the best Valentine’s day while sojourning your form of impotence. I would like to post a list of strategies so we can use them year round for other holidays but more importantly what has worked for you will likely work for me.
I have received several emails asking for suggestions. I am a bit desperate for something new and refreshing myself. So please post your successful Valentines day expressions of love.
I started yesterday with a single rose and will bring a different colored one home each day. I think I will even buy one of those cards from when I was in 5th grade or partner with that subway sandwich commercial and bring her a cheese steak saying something intelligent if I can figure that out.
Mostly though be empowered to know that you are not in bondage to any holiday. The holiday is meant to be in submission to you. Have a lot of fun with it this year!!
Looking forward to your posts!!!!!
of the same family with longer half life as U go from viagra, levitra, to cialis. If one can afford it under I deal conditions you always would want to rotate medicines than the body can get accustomed to. This is used frequently with pain management where the body get accustomed to a form of opiate and becomes less effective. Changing type and doses often allows the body to see the drug as new and provides greater impact.
The short answer is it was a good day for you but there is some science behind it especially if your a frequent user.
Just curious if there is really a difference between Viagra, Levitra and Cialis I know Cialis is suppose to work longer. Reason I ask is that I found a old sample of Levitra and I used it, and had actually a very positive response to it, much better then when I used a new sample of Viagra or the Cialis. I had always assumed that they were pretty much the same. Just curious if it was the Levitra or just my lucky time.
After implant surgery did anyone have difficulty being able to have an orgasm or ejaculate? I have noticed it takes me almost 2 hours to orgasm and ejaculate even though it’s been almost 4 months sense my surgery. This time is getting shorter, but I am wondering if this is one of the normal things that go along with a shorter Johnson?
Anyone have a problem wit splitting UR wife or girl between her butt and vagina… Bc of the Penile Prosthesis??? Maybe from the angle it goes in when it’s pumped up…my friend have this problem she be split down there and it burns her.. it sound crazy but it is happening…